Friday, September 26, 2014

Jen and the Rubias is minus one Rubia.

Got a sad, short post coming your way.

Chelsea went home. When I say home, I mean to the United States. I’m devastated but also relieved. She needs this. She has had one of the hardest services I’ve ever heard of. Shit just kept coming her way and she’s been fighting it and bouncing back since the beginning. She is one of the strongest, most inspiring people I have had the pleasure of becoming lifelong friends with. Thank God for Chelsea.
 
She is one of my biggest supporters in this country and I know she’ll continue to keep us updated during her time at home. I talked to her basically every single day for hours. We are the same person, practically. I love Chelsea. She deserves to feel happy in this country and in any country. For this reason, I am thrilled that she is home right now.
We are lucky, however, because there is a hope that she will be able to come back after 45 days of receiving Peace Corps provided support.

I just wanted to give a little shout out because these are the types of situations that I did not anticipate when I joined the Peace Corps. I never thought that one of my hardest emotional times would be when one of my beloved G mates leaves. I don’t want to sound dramatic but it has rocked my world off of its axis a little. It’s tough because you get used to the things that make you feel normal and then you start to rely on them. Chelsea contributes to my sense of normalcy. She reminds me that I am guapa when I’m feeling down, she’s the one who came and supported me in my site for a week when my little brother got hit by a car and I had no idea what was going on, and she was the one who stayed with me my first night in my own place so I didn’t have to feel alone, she is one of the few people I can call my best friend in Paraguay and that makes me the luckiest girl.

Chelsea, I love you and I hope you know that Jen and the Rubias is waiting for your glorious return and that we can’t wait to hear about all of the fabulous food you’re eating! Watch some Scandal and get better, my love.
 

First Project success!


HIV/AIDS Taller:


So I’ve finally completed my first ever, real life project. Last Monday, my two youth (Leti and Sandra) and I taught our HIV/AIDS taller. A taller (pronounced tayer) is basically an extended class about a certain topic, ours was approximately 2.5 hours. As you all know, we went to a Peace Corps-run taller in early August and we have to do some kind of community project with the new information that we learned about for the follow up taller in October. My youth are super guapa and wanted to do a complete mini-taller, I was so proud of them when they suggested it!

It took a ton of planning, more than I actually realized to be honest. We had to figure out where we were going to hold it, who we would invite, when we were going to do it, what day…etc. The girls talked to their directora at the high school and got permission to use one of the classrooms during the afternoon session of school. We picked our day, and then we had to start inviting people to come. This was always a source of anxiety for me because it would mean that I would have to go from class to class chatting about what this taller was about. If you know me, you know that I don’t really love speaking in front of people, let alone tons of teenagers that I don’t know who all speak Spanish. It ended up being fine, but I was terrified every single time haha. It was also nerve wracking because we were never sure who was actually going to show up, if anyone at all! We invited all classrooms that had students aged 14-19, at all three high schools in town. That is A LOT of kids, but clearly not everyone was going to come…we weren’t even sure if one person would show up… We also decided to announce an invitation on the radio, the Friday beforehand, in order to make community members aware who could then encourage a teen to come. It was actually pretty cool, and I hope to use the radio as a means to advertise my future projects as well.

So we invited everyone, made all of our materials (charla papers, diagrams, schedules, presentations, etc.), then decided we also wanted to make a snack for all of our participants. Cupcakes are clearly a necessity, and I think they were certainly a selling point. Leti and Sandra also decided to ask their school’s cantina worker to make some small little snack foods as well, things like mini empanadas, pizza bites, tiny triangle sandwiches…those kinds of things. Yum.

So Monday morning arrives and I’m just freaking out because I need to continue practicing my sections and my brain is just a mess. It wouldn’t have been that big of a deal, because clearly I know this info like the back of my hand…I’ve studied it about a 100 times throughout my schooling, but I just simply don’t know HIV vocabulary in Spanish. I study and study and practice my parts and finally feel ready. So I head over to Leti’s house and we grab all of our materials and head to the school. My heart is racing because of the nerves but I’m trying to keep my cool. We get to the room and start setting up and we ended up having the perfect amount of prep time. Then kids start showing up. I was excited, but also terrified. I had such mixed emotions. I obviously wanted people to show up because we had put so much work into it, but I also just wanted to go home and not have to face the embarrassment of stumbling through the activities.

The taller was supposed to start at 5. This obviously did not happen. At around 5:15 we only had about 8 kids, so Leti had the idea of going back to the classrooms that were having their afternoon session to re-remind them of the taller’s existence. We go to the 9th grade class and every single student wants to come. Now we have approximately 30 students, which is WAY more than I anticipated. We started at about 5:30, and had to cut some things out because of time. Our schedule was as follows:

Introduction-basically just thanking them all for coming, blah blah

Noviazgo Saludable- this means healthy relationships. They LOVED this. I didn’t really think it would be that big of a hit, but we ended up spending a lot more time on this than planned. We had each student fill out a list of the things that their Ideal partner would have (physically, emotionally, personality-wise, etc) and also the things they didn’t want. Then we collected each paper (it was anonymous) and passed them back out randomly. They then had to get into groups and discuss similarities and differences and talked about what this meant. It was great.

I.T.S.- this means STDs. We did an activity to begin called “the dance”. Each person is given a blank piece of paper (the invitation to a party), and they have to choose a symbol from the wall (there was a star, crescent moon, square, circle, triangle, and a heart). Then we would play music and everyone would have to dance around and each time you danced with someone, you would write their chosen symbol on your card. Once we were done, we revealed what each symbol meant (star-syphilis, crescent moon- gonorrhea, square-herpes, triangle-chlamydia, heart-HIV and the circle was healthy person) and then asked who had “danced” with each type of symbol... it was good little introduction to the section. Then we talked about each of the STDs and now to prevent and treat them.

HIV/AIDS- this was the main section obviously. We did an overview about what HIV/AIDS stands for, then we talked about how it’s transmitted and how it is NOT transmitted, risky behaviors, prevention, the stages of HIV and what happens to a person who has HIV/AIDS, and finally treatment and tests to find out if someone is HIV positive. We then did a little activity about risky behavior. There were approximately 20 little slips of paper that had a behavior one it and then there was a large thermometer with 3 sections on it “Major risk”, “minor risk” and “no risk”. An example of each would be “sharing needles during drug use”-obviously major risk, “having sex with a condom”-minor risk, and “abstinence” or “mosquito bites”-no risk.

Stigma and Discrimination- this was our last section of information. We started out with an activity were they formed 2 groups. Each group needed to stand next to each other, as close as possible with their hands behind their backs. We gave the first person of each group an orange with the word HIV on it. When we told them to start, they had to pass the orange to each other without letting the other team know who had it. When we told them to stop, the other team would have to choose who they thought had the orange in their hands. They (as expected) guessed wrong every time. This was to signify that you can’t tell who has HIV just by looking at them. Then we went on to define stigma and discrimination and the various types there are.

Learning Check: this was the last activity of the taller. We had condoms blown up like balloons with a piece of paper inside that had a review question. They split into three groups and lined up. The “balloons” were spread around in the middle of the room and on the other side were 3 chairs. They had to race to grab a “balloon” and run to their chair and sit on the balloon to pop it, the first person got the answer their question first (without the help of their group). This was a great way to gauge what info really stuck with them and what info needs to be worked on, plus it was really fun.

Overall, I think it was really successful and I think we’ll probably continue doing charlas about HIV/AIDS in the other colegios. The technical school was really interested in having their own set of charlas for each class so that seems very promising.

So even though the entire process was scary and daunting, and even though I definitely stumbled during my sections of the taller, I’m SO happy that I had a successful event as my first project. YAY!!!
oh and PS-they all really loved the cupcakes! :)

 
prepping some condom balloons!

 
 
 
the Baile activity!
getting ready!
TREATS!

condom balloon race!
 


the group!

 
 


Sunday, September 7, 2014

projects, projects, projects!!!!

Well the day has finally come! I am starting to become a guapa volunteer!!! I never thought the day would come, so naturally I'm ecstatic... but also a little terrified (shh)

So I brought my two girls from my site to the HIV/AIDS taller hosted by Peace Corps and now we have to work on a community project and then we'll go to a follow up taller in October. We are planning on giving a 1-day mini-taller at one of the high schools and the girls are going to invite all of the high schools in town (this week hopefully, fingers crossed that they actually do it). I also invited my nearest PCV, Abbie, who is also a health volunteer but from my sister-G. She is going to bring some youth from her community so thankfully we'll at least have some people there. I also invited a youth group that works in my community. I'm hopeful that it is successful! Vamos a ver.

I also "started" a vegetable garden with my host sister, Leti. And by "started" I mean that I started clearing the space that we're going to use behind my host mom's dental office. It's a really great space and is only a block from where I live. We are in the process of finding some fertilizer and we just bought some seeds. We're going to have EVERYTHING! Tomatoes, lettuce, cabbage, onion, watermelon, broccoli, cauliflower, green beans, and much more. I'm so excited! My ultimate plan is that I want to eventually start a garden at the Centro de Salud for them to use for their food program for the employees, but first I need to make sure I can actually maintain a garden successfully. I'm not sure if I have a green thumb or not haha.

Another thing that I hope to do is start my exercise club one of these days. I bought my bike (finally!) and I want to do a once-a-week biking club as well. My host sister and her friend seem pumped about it so hopefully they can help me recruit some more members. Also, the idea of having a "turkey trot" in my site before our Thanksgiving celebration in Encarn was brought up to me and I love it! Abbie and I really want to set that up because I have the perfect 10k route on our Costanera and it would be the most perfect opportunity, plus its such a tradition in the States that I could share with Paraguayans in my community. My host mom was also enthusiastic so I'm really hoping (once again) that it ends up working out.

Lastly (phew), when me and Leti were working on clearing out our gardening space she brought up to me out of the blue that she's like to do a community project. This sparked my interest, obviously, and so I asked what it was. She then proceeds to tell me that she wants to make a library at her school because they have one but its more like a storage area for old textbooks than an actual, functional library. This made my day..no actually this made my service. This is what I've been waiting for this whole time. I was just so shocked and elated that I started talking a million miles a minute because this is the project I've wanted since I got here I just didn't know how to do it or if anyone was interested. Who is that possible?! What are the odds that my host sister wants to do the exact same project as my dream project? It could not get any better. I was (and still am, a bit) on cloud nine. Por suerte, there is a meeting in Asuncion the day that my training event ends about how to form libraries. (did I mention that this is just TOOOOO perfect?!) some staff from DC are flying down here to give some lessons on library-making, I suppose. The timing just couldn't be better and for this I am very pleased. It is a very blessed moment in my opinion that I just so happened to start a mini project, that eventually lead to the conversation that prompted my dream project. Yay!

This has been a guapa week. I've finally started to feel like how I always thought I would, like an actual PCV. It's about time ha. hey, my projects could all crash and burn (um, please no.) but I'll have to keep these moments in the back of my head. There is hope, and sometimes, like right now, I feel like I maybe can make a difference here in Paraguay. That is a good feeling.