Wednesday, December 3, 2014

A Very Peace Corps Thanksgiving

As everyone knows, the wonderful holiday of Thanksgiving rolled by a few days ago. For those of you that don't know, Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. ha.ha.its not just because I love food, although that definitely contributes. I love it because it's the start of the Holiday Season and you get to spend time with your family, and no one is stressed out yet. Anyways, this was the first major holiday that I've missed, I mean sure I missed 4th of July and some of those... but to me this was the first major holiday. I thought it would be a lot harder than it was. It's probably because we had our huge Peace Corps event at a fabulous resort down here in Itapúa.

It was exciting because since it was all the way down south in my neck of the woods, a bunch of my friends were finally able to come visit me and see my beautiful site! The resort was right outside of Encarnacion so it was super easy to get to from my house. Approximately 70 PCVs joined together to share the holiday, from all different G's. it was so awesome to be able to meet everyone that we may not have met before over a span of a couple days.

Let's talk Thanksgiving dinner. We were so lucky to have the most AMAZING cooking committee (yeah peace corps is reallllllly into making committees) and obviously one of my best friends here, Bonna, was in charge of the desserts. She made the most delicious pumpkin pies from scratch plus some other goodies. It really was impressive that we had turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, everything we could've wanted. Instead of cranberry sauce, they got creative and made a super delish mango chutney. These PCVs knowwww how to cook. I'm slightly jealous. So we had our dinner, we sang the national anthem, which was kinda weird because I hadn't heard that tune in forever. And we just had a really good time.



The whole group at Thanksgiving dinner!
G-44 Love

YUM!

The rest of the weekend was Beer Olympics. can you say "FUN"?! so my team was all G-44ers duh. Me, Jen, Bonna, Steph and Michael. We mayyyy have gotten a little carried away and made team theme and outfits. Were we the only ones? yes. Did we look fabulous? also yes. Don't regret that for a second! If you know the show It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia then you'll understand. If you don't know the show, stop immediately and go watch it. It's hilarious. We were The Gang from that show. We were each assigned a character and made outfits to match. Our team was actually called "It's Always Sunny in Paraguay" which is fitting for obvious reasons. The best part of the day was the volleyball competition. I had assumed early on that we would just get killed immediately. But that wasn't the case at all, we actually made it to 3rd place (i'm pretty sure!)!


just being casual, stoop chillin' with The Gang
 
Charlie (Steph), Dennis (Jen), Mac (me) and Frank (Bonna). oh and Michael was Sweet Dee.

this butterfly was super cute and kept landing on me, but then things got super pesada and it would NOT leave me alone. it was pretty much a butterfly attack, if I ever saw one hahah

waiting to play some Volley

we tried to lift Sweet Dee....but then for some reason 3 of us held his legs and gave all the heavy parts to poor little Bonna. HAHAHA not a success

After we ended our fabulous time at the resort, The Gang and I decided to go to Encarn for the day to get some errands run and have a nice dinner and spend the day at the beach! It was great. Plus we finally put the finishing touches on our vacation to Uruguay and Buenos Aires by buying our bus tickets!
Oh and we also found a Starbucks-esque type coffee shop that had iced coffees with many flavors and delicious looking sandwiches and salads. Hallelujah!

Now I have literally nothing going on until vacation. soooo the days are going to go pretty slowly because I have nothing to fill them with but reading, relaxing, watching movies, and hanging out with my host family. I'll probably try to start working on that World Summer Camp that i'm doing with my two friends. We'll see. I just CANNOT wait for vacation. I'm so stoked!

Until Next Time,
xox

Monday, November 10, 2014

The Joys of Reading

Hello all!

Today I just want to share my excitement with you. I started going to the primary school once a week to read to the pre-school through second grade classrooms. This came as a suggestion from one of my dearest friends, Bonna. I have been in the quite the rut lately so she encouraged me to start this easy, effective mini-project. I love reading anyways, and plan on doing a school library project in the future, as you all know... so this was the perfect idea. I started last week. The kids seemed excited but I wasn't sure if it was just because they got out of doing whatever work they were working on at the moment, or because they actually wanted to listen to this "norteamericana" stumble through a children's book. However, it went well and I felt really guapa afterwards.

I just went into the school this morning and every single class was so excited to see me! The preschoolers remembered my name and grabbed their chairs and ran outside to sit in a circle under the shady tree! It was adorable. Another thing I love about the preschoolers is that their guapa teacher reviews the story with them when I leave and asks them follow up questions. I LOVE THIS! The other classes were just as excited and when I got to the second grade class they were literally jumping for joy! It really makes me feel good that these kids enjoy their interactions with me so far! It's also hilarious because they call me "Profe" which means teacher. Ha! If they only knew that I can barely read these books because sometimes there are words that I don't know in them! hahaha




I wanted to start this project because it's a great way to get my face out there and to get to know the kids and teachers a little better. I also just think it's so important to read to children for so many reasons, and that is just not something that happens in this country very often. Next year I want to start an English class with the older kids and I'll also probably do something health related (oops...am I health volunteer?!) like nutrition or exercise. So this is an excellent way to get my foot in the door, literally.

In other news, I think Bonna, Arianna and I are going to do a travelling summer camp in each of our sites. (another reason why it was a good idea for me to start going to the school, so that I'll have kids to invite!) Our idea is to do an International Cultures Camp. What that would means is that we'll make little paper passports for the kids and then each day, for 3 days, we'll "travel" to 3 or 4 countries and learn about their cultures and then do some sort of activity or art projects. For example, we could go to Japan and learn about their culture and then do an origami project for them to take home. Then they'd get a stamp when they've completed each country! I'm in love with this idea because they really don't know that much about other countries, culturally and geographically.

Last weekend, I went to a German "beer" fest with some of my fantastic VAC mates. I use quotations because it was a beer fest that only had two types of beer. um, okkkayy. it was quite expensive to get in and then you still had to buy food and drinks the whole night. It was really cool to see the authentic German dancing and it was great to get out and socialize a bit. It's always nice to see other parts of the country too!
some crazy dancing!

more crazy dancing

The girls! it may look like we're in a warehouse, but I swear we're not! haha

still so excited for Thanksgiving and my Uruguay/Argentina vacation for Christmas! oh and my garden has started to sprout little plantitas! I have beans and cucumber which are growing like weeds, and the carrots, beets, tomatoes, lettuce and radishes are also starting to grow! yay!

Saturday, November 1, 2014

A third of the way done.

Wow. I can’t believe it. Today Matthew brought to my attention that 9 months in country did in fact mean that I have completed 1/3 of my 27 month commitment. What the heck?! That’s absolutely crazy! Sometimes I think about what that means…sometimes it seems like I’ve been here for such a short time and that it’s just whizzing by… sometimes it seems like I’ve been here for a lifetime. Such a rollercoaster of emotions all the time.

I suppose this is time for some reflection. Get ready for it.
I’ve learned to not take life so seriously. Every time I forget that little tidbit, something comes along to remind me all over again. No matter how much you plan and how much you try to make sure everything will be perfect, something will come along to bring you right back down to Earth. (Side note: being a perfectionist is nearly impossible in Peace Corps…oops, wish I would’ve known that beforehand ha) I’m still learning this little life lesson, and usually I’m learning it the hard way. Darn. However, it is such an important thing to learn and I feel blessed that I’m learning this during my youth. It’s such a hard thing to learn in the USA because that is simply not how American culture runs. Being in a country like Paraguay makes it easy. Life is so tranquilo here and it still amazing me how relaxed things are, I still haven’t completely adjusted to this lifestyle but I’m getting there. I feel like I’ll finally get used to it when I have about 2 months left. Oh well. It happens.

Another thing I’ve learned is that comparison is evil. It is so engrained in American culture. Since before I can remember I’ve been comparing myself to others. To classmates, peers, friends, family…everyone. This is something that has got to stop. It doesn’t help anyone, certainly not me. I’ve struggled with this lately. Talking to other PCVs is crucial to survival here, otherwise I would simply go crazy. I talk to one of my friends for at least an hour a day, on average. A lot of the times we talk about what we’re doing in site…naturally, that’s why we’re here. This brings a lot of feelings that really have nothing to do with me. Through comparison I typically feel less than, inadequate, among other awful feelings. Even though I’m doing my own things in site that are completely different from what other PCVs are doing, I’m finally starting to learn the significance of my projects, however small they might be. Many factors contribute to the success of projects, types of contacts, resources available, what the community wants or needs, etc… if anything makes me unhappy in this country it’s comparison, and for this reason I am committed to learning how to stop! I want to support my fellow PCVs, not feel like I’m in competition with them!!!
Another thing I’ve learned is to be thankful for the little things. Life is so hard here, such an effort most of the time, that focusing on the little wins is so important! It keeps me sane and brings me back up.

Oh by the way, if I didn’t say it before I finally finished all seven Harry Potter books in Spanish. That is a serious win for me!

 

 

Monday, October 20, 2014

newest update


Hey everyone! It’s been awhile. Hmm, let’s see…what have I been up to?!

Well, my two youth and I went to the follow up HIV/AIDS taller in Caacupe last Friday and Saturday. It was really great for the girls to be able to reconnect with all of the friends they had made at the last taller! I could tell they were a lot more comfortable this time, and they really looked forward to it!
the kids!!!

love these goofballs
 
Leti, me and Sandra!
On Saturday I went to my second Ahendu. For those of you who may not remember, Ahendu is a PCV event where we all get together every 3 or so months and PCVs can perform musical talents, well actually they probably could perform other kinds of talents too, but everyone just sticks to music. There were a lot of fantastic acts! Some girls from my G performed a rap about terere, which was Amazing!! It was G-40s last Ahendu and they sang a touching song (can’t rememeber what it was..) and it just made us all realize that this goes by so quickly. Our sister G, G-41, who is the other Health G is going to be leaving next. That’s CRAZY!!! Oh I forgot to mention the most important part, it was Halloween themed. Thank God! I loved dressing up. It was my first Halloween ever where I wasn’t freezing to death. I didn’t have to wear a coat or anything. Fantastic! A group of my friends and I were the Seven Deadly Sins. I was Greed, and it was SO fun doing a group costume! I had fake money weaved into my hair, a money sign gold chain and glitter and sequins everywhere. Oh, and Greed written on my knuckles.
Envy (Steph), Greed (me), Lust (Arianna), Gluttony (Bonna), Pride (Jana), Wrath (Nora) and Sloth up in front (Tisa)
 
G-44 peeps
 
4 of the sins! (greed, lust, gluttony, envy)
 
sorry for the selfie....but I wanted to show a full picture of my costume!
 

In other news, it has been SO hot recently. Apparently it’s been unseasonably hot. The last few days have been in the 100s and it’s only spring right now! How will I survive?! I’ve just been in a constant state of sweatiness, which is disgusting. And being on buses is worst. Yuck.

I’m finally going to start my exercise/running/biking class today! I’m kinda nervous that no one will show up, vamos a ver.  I’ve wanted to start a class of this type since I got to Carmen…it just hasn’t happened until now. I’m kind of excited because it doesn’t involve much talking, but it’s still a guapa thing! I’m going to have Mondays be running/walking day (depending on abilities), Wednesdays will eventually be various forms of exercise day (i.e. Zumba, Yoga, circuits) but I still need to find a space for that, and Fridays will be cycling day. I hope it goes well, and I realllllly just hope people decide to show up. I’ve been having the radio man advertise the group, and I made some flyers that I put at the high school and the hospital! I’ll let you guys know what happens!
The next thing I’m excited for this Thanksgiving. We’re having a big PCV get together near Encarnacion (this is a factor that makes me even more excited, I don’t have to travel ALLLLLL the way to Asuncion). It’ll be held at this fancy resort and we’ll have tons of games, there’s a pool, and we’ll have an authentic Thanksgiving dinner. One of my closest friends, Bonna, is on the cooking committee and this gives me complete faith that it will be the most delicious dinner. She’s our very own Martha Stewart! Since Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday I’m so glad that I get to spend it with other Americans!

I’m officially the Peace Corps Office Library Coordinator! I got voted in last Friday! I don’t totally know what my role will include, I think a lot of the time it’s just kind of what you make it. Essentially I’ll be in charge of the various libraries we have (fiction, technical, children’s, etc) and also promoting the resources available in each library! I’m pumped to finally be involved on a more organizational level! It will give me something to do when things in site are slow!

Jen got a puppy, so claro that I’m its godmother! She still doesn’t have a name. what do you guys think? It’s between Anya (short of Princess Anastasia) and Mina (short for Marilina, who’s a popular Paraguayan singer), give me your thoughts!
Little Miss No Name
 
 

Friday, September 26, 2014

Jen and the Rubias is minus one Rubia.

Got a sad, short post coming your way.

Chelsea went home. When I say home, I mean to the United States. I’m devastated but also relieved. She needs this. She has had one of the hardest services I’ve ever heard of. Shit just kept coming her way and she’s been fighting it and bouncing back since the beginning. She is one of the strongest, most inspiring people I have had the pleasure of becoming lifelong friends with. Thank God for Chelsea.
 
She is one of my biggest supporters in this country and I know she’ll continue to keep us updated during her time at home. I talked to her basically every single day for hours. We are the same person, practically. I love Chelsea. She deserves to feel happy in this country and in any country. For this reason, I am thrilled that she is home right now.
We are lucky, however, because there is a hope that she will be able to come back after 45 days of receiving Peace Corps provided support.

I just wanted to give a little shout out because these are the types of situations that I did not anticipate when I joined the Peace Corps. I never thought that one of my hardest emotional times would be when one of my beloved G mates leaves. I don’t want to sound dramatic but it has rocked my world off of its axis a little. It’s tough because you get used to the things that make you feel normal and then you start to rely on them. Chelsea contributes to my sense of normalcy. She reminds me that I am guapa when I’m feeling down, she’s the one who came and supported me in my site for a week when my little brother got hit by a car and I had no idea what was going on, and she was the one who stayed with me my first night in my own place so I didn’t have to feel alone, she is one of the few people I can call my best friend in Paraguay and that makes me the luckiest girl.

Chelsea, I love you and I hope you know that Jen and the Rubias is waiting for your glorious return and that we can’t wait to hear about all of the fabulous food you’re eating! Watch some Scandal and get better, my love.
 

First Project success!


HIV/AIDS Taller:


So I’ve finally completed my first ever, real life project. Last Monday, my two youth (Leti and Sandra) and I taught our HIV/AIDS taller. A taller (pronounced tayer) is basically an extended class about a certain topic, ours was approximately 2.5 hours. As you all know, we went to a Peace Corps-run taller in early August and we have to do some kind of community project with the new information that we learned about for the follow up taller in October. My youth are super guapa and wanted to do a complete mini-taller, I was so proud of them when they suggested it!

It took a ton of planning, more than I actually realized to be honest. We had to figure out where we were going to hold it, who we would invite, when we were going to do it, what day…etc. The girls talked to their directora at the high school and got permission to use one of the classrooms during the afternoon session of school. We picked our day, and then we had to start inviting people to come. This was always a source of anxiety for me because it would mean that I would have to go from class to class chatting about what this taller was about. If you know me, you know that I don’t really love speaking in front of people, let alone tons of teenagers that I don’t know who all speak Spanish. It ended up being fine, but I was terrified every single time haha. It was also nerve wracking because we were never sure who was actually going to show up, if anyone at all! We invited all classrooms that had students aged 14-19, at all three high schools in town. That is A LOT of kids, but clearly not everyone was going to come…we weren’t even sure if one person would show up… We also decided to announce an invitation on the radio, the Friday beforehand, in order to make community members aware who could then encourage a teen to come. It was actually pretty cool, and I hope to use the radio as a means to advertise my future projects as well.

So we invited everyone, made all of our materials (charla papers, diagrams, schedules, presentations, etc.), then decided we also wanted to make a snack for all of our participants. Cupcakes are clearly a necessity, and I think they were certainly a selling point. Leti and Sandra also decided to ask their school’s cantina worker to make some small little snack foods as well, things like mini empanadas, pizza bites, tiny triangle sandwiches…those kinds of things. Yum.

So Monday morning arrives and I’m just freaking out because I need to continue practicing my sections and my brain is just a mess. It wouldn’t have been that big of a deal, because clearly I know this info like the back of my hand…I’ve studied it about a 100 times throughout my schooling, but I just simply don’t know HIV vocabulary in Spanish. I study and study and practice my parts and finally feel ready. So I head over to Leti’s house and we grab all of our materials and head to the school. My heart is racing because of the nerves but I’m trying to keep my cool. We get to the room and start setting up and we ended up having the perfect amount of prep time. Then kids start showing up. I was excited, but also terrified. I had such mixed emotions. I obviously wanted people to show up because we had put so much work into it, but I also just wanted to go home and not have to face the embarrassment of stumbling through the activities.

The taller was supposed to start at 5. This obviously did not happen. At around 5:15 we only had about 8 kids, so Leti had the idea of going back to the classrooms that were having their afternoon session to re-remind them of the taller’s existence. We go to the 9th grade class and every single student wants to come. Now we have approximately 30 students, which is WAY more than I anticipated. We started at about 5:30, and had to cut some things out because of time. Our schedule was as follows:

Introduction-basically just thanking them all for coming, blah blah

Noviazgo Saludable- this means healthy relationships. They LOVED this. I didn’t really think it would be that big of a hit, but we ended up spending a lot more time on this than planned. We had each student fill out a list of the things that their Ideal partner would have (physically, emotionally, personality-wise, etc) and also the things they didn’t want. Then we collected each paper (it was anonymous) and passed them back out randomly. They then had to get into groups and discuss similarities and differences and talked about what this meant. It was great.

I.T.S.- this means STDs. We did an activity to begin called “the dance”. Each person is given a blank piece of paper (the invitation to a party), and they have to choose a symbol from the wall (there was a star, crescent moon, square, circle, triangle, and a heart). Then we would play music and everyone would have to dance around and each time you danced with someone, you would write their chosen symbol on your card. Once we were done, we revealed what each symbol meant (star-syphilis, crescent moon- gonorrhea, square-herpes, triangle-chlamydia, heart-HIV and the circle was healthy person) and then asked who had “danced” with each type of symbol... it was good little introduction to the section. Then we talked about each of the STDs and now to prevent and treat them.

HIV/AIDS- this was the main section obviously. We did an overview about what HIV/AIDS stands for, then we talked about how it’s transmitted and how it is NOT transmitted, risky behaviors, prevention, the stages of HIV and what happens to a person who has HIV/AIDS, and finally treatment and tests to find out if someone is HIV positive. We then did a little activity about risky behavior. There were approximately 20 little slips of paper that had a behavior one it and then there was a large thermometer with 3 sections on it “Major risk”, “minor risk” and “no risk”. An example of each would be “sharing needles during drug use”-obviously major risk, “having sex with a condom”-minor risk, and “abstinence” or “mosquito bites”-no risk.

Stigma and Discrimination- this was our last section of information. We started out with an activity were they formed 2 groups. Each group needed to stand next to each other, as close as possible with their hands behind their backs. We gave the first person of each group an orange with the word HIV on it. When we told them to start, they had to pass the orange to each other without letting the other team know who had it. When we told them to stop, the other team would have to choose who they thought had the orange in their hands. They (as expected) guessed wrong every time. This was to signify that you can’t tell who has HIV just by looking at them. Then we went on to define stigma and discrimination and the various types there are.

Learning Check: this was the last activity of the taller. We had condoms blown up like balloons with a piece of paper inside that had a review question. They split into three groups and lined up. The “balloons” were spread around in the middle of the room and on the other side were 3 chairs. They had to race to grab a “balloon” and run to their chair and sit on the balloon to pop it, the first person got the answer their question first (without the help of their group). This was a great way to gauge what info really stuck with them and what info needs to be worked on, plus it was really fun.

Overall, I think it was really successful and I think we’ll probably continue doing charlas about HIV/AIDS in the other colegios. The technical school was really interested in having their own set of charlas for each class so that seems very promising.

So even though the entire process was scary and daunting, and even though I definitely stumbled during my sections of the taller, I’m SO happy that I had a successful event as my first project. YAY!!!
oh and PS-they all really loved the cupcakes! :)

 
prepping some condom balloons!

 
 
 
the Baile activity!
getting ready!
TREATS!

condom balloon race!
 


the group!

 
 


Sunday, September 7, 2014

projects, projects, projects!!!!

Well the day has finally come! I am starting to become a guapa volunteer!!! I never thought the day would come, so naturally I'm ecstatic... but also a little terrified (shh)

So I brought my two girls from my site to the HIV/AIDS taller hosted by Peace Corps and now we have to work on a community project and then we'll go to a follow up taller in October. We are planning on giving a 1-day mini-taller at one of the high schools and the girls are going to invite all of the high schools in town (this week hopefully, fingers crossed that they actually do it). I also invited my nearest PCV, Abbie, who is also a health volunteer but from my sister-G. She is going to bring some youth from her community so thankfully we'll at least have some people there. I also invited a youth group that works in my community. I'm hopeful that it is successful! Vamos a ver.

I also "started" a vegetable garden with my host sister, Leti. And by "started" I mean that I started clearing the space that we're going to use behind my host mom's dental office. It's a really great space and is only a block from where I live. We are in the process of finding some fertilizer and we just bought some seeds. We're going to have EVERYTHING! Tomatoes, lettuce, cabbage, onion, watermelon, broccoli, cauliflower, green beans, and much more. I'm so excited! My ultimate plan is that I want to eventually start a garden at the Centro de Salud for them to use for their food program for the employees, but first I need to make sure I can actually maintain a garden successfully. I'm not sure if I have a green thumb or not haha.

Another thing that I hope to do is start my exercise club one of these days. I bought my bike (finally!) and I want to do a once-a-week biking club as well. My host sister and her friend seem pumped about it so hopefully they can help me recruit some more members. Also, the idea of having a "turkey trot" in my site before our Thanksgiving celebration in Encarn was brought up to me and I love it! Abbie and I really want to set that up because I have the perfect 10k route on our Costanera and it would be the most perfect opportunity, plus its such a tradition in the States that I could share with Paraguayans in my community. My host mom was also enthusiastic so I'm really hoping (once again) that it ends up working out.

Lastly (phew), when me and Leti were working on clearing out our gardening space she brought up to me out of the blue that she's like to do a community project. This sparked my interest, obviously, and so I asked what it was. She then proceeds to tell me that she wants to make a library at her school because they have one but its more like a storage area for old textbooks than an actual, functional library. This made my day..no actually this made my service. This is what I've been waiting for this whole time. I was just so shocked and elated that I started talking a million miles a minute because this is the project I've wanted since I got here I just didn't know how to do it or if anyone was interested. Who is that possible?! What are the odds that my host sister wants to do the exact same project as my dream project? It could not get any better. I was (and still am, a bit) on cloud nine. Por suerte, there is a meeting in Asuncion the day that my training event ends about how to form libraries. (did I mention that this is just TOOOOO perfect?!) some staff from DC are flying down here to give some lessons on library-making, I suppose. The timing just couldn't be better and for this I am very pleased. It is a very blessed moment in my opinion that I just so happened to start a mini project, that eventually lead to the conversation that prompted my dream project. Yay!

This has been a guapa week. I've finally started to feel like how I always thought I would, like an actual PCV. It's about time ha. hey, my projects could all crash and burn (um, please no.) but I'll have to keep these moments in the back of my head. There is hope, and sometimes, like right now, I feel like I maybe can make a difference here in Paraguay. That is a good feeling.

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

It has been SO long!!!! so many updates!

Wow. It has been a longggg time since I've updated my blog. Sorry to all my faithful readers, I've just been super swamped. I'm gonna just have to briefly summarize what I've been doing for the last month because or else it would just take way too long to type out.

HIV/AIDS Taller:
As I mentioned in my last post, I took 2 teens to an HIV/AIDS workshop hosted by Peace Corps. Leti and her friend Sandra were the 2 girls I took and they had a fabulous time. We had to leave town by 3am to get there on time because we just live SO far from everything. We got to the camp and it was a really beautiful place, very woodsy and it kind of made me feel at home. Over the following days we did many activities regarding HIV/AIDS and how to prevent it. It was so awesome to see youth from so many different communities around Paraguay come together simply because they are interested in making a difference. I was told by Leti that they had practically learned more about sexual health, etc in the 2 days we were there than they had in years of health class. It was such a bittersweet moment for me. On the one hand, I'm thrilled that they really paid attention and that the information seemed to stick with them but on the other it's kinda crazy if it's true. It was also so awesome for these kids because people don't typically leave their communities, especially at a young age, without their families. These youth were able to meet people from all around and that's just not something that occurs often. We'll go back in October for a follow up workshop and in the meantime the youth are supposed to do some sort of community project using the info they learned. Vamos a ver what ends up happening with that.

Reconnect:
So the workshop ended on Saturday afternoon and I sent my two girls home on a bus from the camp. I didn't go with them because I actually had a week long training event in my original training community, called Reconnect. That didn't start until Monday but it simply would not have made sense for me to travel all the way to Carmen and then back the next day so instead I went to Villarrica and hung out with my good friend, Bonna. It was a lovely city and we got to hang out with some other PCVs who were also in town so that's always a fun time. Before we headed to Guarambare we stopped at the famous carpincho park. Carpincho is the Spanish word for capybara which is apparently the worlds largest rodent. Who knew they'd be here in Py?!
what a lindo park!
Look at that sassy carpincho.











Anyways, we made it to G're on what I'm pretty sure was the most crowded bus in history. I mean seriously, Bonna got a seat near the front and I was in the very back and when we got to our stop she literally had to yell my name because I couldn't even see anything... it then took me literally like 10 minutes to get off the bus because I had my large backpack and there were approximately 50 people in the aisle. It was hell and my legs and arms were shaking when I finally squeezed off that bus. After an adventure like that we decided to reward ourselves with the best empanadas in Py from our favorite little restaurant, El Paso. As soon as we arrived the lady who owns the place was just thrilled to see us! I mean we had gone there so often during training. I'm almost certain that she would stay open even if she only ever served PCVs. We LOVE that place. Its like home. It's the place where we started to form these amazing friendships. Afterwards we all headed back to our original host families houses. This was an interesting experience because I hadn't seen them in so long... it was great though because now my Spanish is a lot better, which they obviously told me many times. Throughout the week it was the same old thing, head to class early do some trainings, language and other random things... but it was so nice to see everyone from my G and hear all of the their stories about how it's going in site and what projects they are either already working on (alright, guapas) or are planning on starting soon! After class pretty much everyday we went to El Paso so spend some time. It was overall a very good week.

A cute little drawing someone did during Reconnect!

MATT VISITS!!!!!!
Well this was clearly the most exciting thing that has happened to me since being in the country. The weekend after Reconnect, Matt, my fiancé, came to visit me for 2 weeks! Let me back track a little. A large group of us went to Asuncion after reconnect for the weekend.
Friday we finished our training and headed into the city. We all just kind of hung out at our favorite hostel, La Casita. That night we went out to bar with a group of PCVs. It was really fun and we got to dance which was great.
Saturday was the day Matt was supposed to arrive... but then he didn't and I was just devastated. We went to Mercado 4 to just hang out and keep my mind off of the fact that he wasn't here. His flights were all crazy due to weather so there was really nothing we could do about it. That night there was a pub crawl so we all went to the that which was interesting because Matt's flight was supposed to get in at around 8am on Sunday morning and here in Py they stay out until like 6am. Craziness, I know. We got back to the hostel at around 5am and took an hour nap before we had to catch a cab to the airport. By "we" I mean myself, Chelsea, Bonna and Jen. These ladies are just the most fabulous friends I really could ever ask for. They got themselves out of bed at 6am in order to accompany me to the airport to pick Matt up. Also, Jen made an incredible welcome sign and had all of the members of our host families (who are related, if you remember that from forever ago) sign it. It was so touching! So we're waiting at the airport, dead tired, and all these people are arriving from his flight. I had butterflies in my tummy because I was just so anxious and nervous, but then people stop coming out. I immediately have a slight panic attack. Where was he?! All I could think of was that he missed another flight... after waiting for what seemed like forever he finally stepped through those doors and I just ran as fast as I could to him. Luckily, my handy dandy friends were there to captures the moments. I was just all tears but I was elated!!!!
Jen's fabulous sign!!!
best hug everrrr!
never wanted to let go!




















So now he was here but had no luggage because it ended up in Brazil. But we'd figure that out later. We went back to the hostel because obviously everyone else was excited to meet him, did I mention how fabulous all of my G-mates are?! We all went to dinner together and it was such a wonderful time. We received his luggage the next day and he had soooo many goodies for me. It was pretty much like Christmas! And he also brought treats for my best friends too! What a guy!!!

We eventually made it back to my site and it was so great to be able to show him my new home. We spent a few days there and hung out with my host family which was great. They finally met the guy that I was always talking about! It was so interesting having to be constant translator because all of the other times that I had guests, they knew Spanish and could speak for themselves. Very strange having to switch back and forth between languages. A few days later my host mom and siblings took us to the Jesuit Ruins that are near by. They were incredible! It was such a great opportunity to learn a little bit about Paraguay's history. The only part that was stressful was that I had to literally translate the tour guides entire tour. It was awkward because she was say a sentence and then wait for me to translate it... and Leti knows English so she would know if I was just making stuff up. There was no way to get around it. It was actually exhausting especially because I don't know construction vocab or a lot of religious vocab either. But I made it through and my family was very proud of me! :)

The Jesuit Ruins of Jesus
The Jesuit Ruins of Trinidad












aw, aren't we cute!




Then we went up near Chelsea's site because there was a ziplining thing that we could do, which seemed like fun so why not? But first we stopped in Jen's site because it was on the way and she lives a lot more campo than I do so I wanted Matt to get a feel for what that was like. He loved it. He was amazed by how many cows were just roaming freely. Haha. It was super awesome for Jen and Matt to hang out considering she was the first person I officially asked to be one of my bridesmaids! It only seems right that they would actually interact and get to know each other. The next day we headed to Paraguarí for the ziplining. It was so wonderful! It was one of most organized things I had seen in this country. There were swinging bridges, ropes courses, ziplining, and a rappelling part. Well worth it! It was also great because Chelsea got to spend some quality time getting to know Matt too, since she had heard so much about him already!


Cute helmets huh?


Just a walk on the costanera in Carmen.
We went back to Carmen and spent our last few days together just watching movies, playing cards and chatting. It was low key but still incredible. It felt even more like home with him here. He even fit in well with my host family. We spent a few dinners over there and it was just fantastic. On his last night in Carmen my family made an Asado for him which was delicious. We just sat around the table and talked for hours. At the end of the night they brought out a gift for him and it was a beautiful Ao Po'i dress shirt. Ao Po'i is a traditional type of embroidery and its pretty expensive so I was just overwhelmed by the gesture. These are the people that I call my family and they were just treating Matt like they'd known him forever and accepted him into our little unit immediately. I never wanted him to leave but the time came and we headed back to Asuncion. I took him to Mercado 4 because that's a experience you simply can't miss out on and he bought his own guampa, bombilla and yerba to make terere of his own! How cute, cultural exchange! I also bought my very own ukulele and named him Oliver! I'm so excited about it! yayyyy! We spent our last few days just roaming around the city and loving every moment of it! Eventually our wonderful time together came to an end and I was so sad but I'm so thankful he got the chance to visit this place that I call home now, although it will be so tough for me to get used to him not being around anymore. But hey, on the bright side I've already done it before once so this time should be a breeze. Right?!


Me and Oliver, my ukulele!

Immediately after he left I headed to Bonna's site because it was her 25th birthday the next day, and it just seemed like the best choice. Going and being with friends orrrr going home and being alone and sad...i'll take the first option please. So after many hours on a bus I finally made it and her house was just adorable. If you knew Bonna, you'd know that her house would obviously be the cutest. She's the Martha Stewart/Betty Crocker of our G and it's fabulous! The next morning we had plans to hike up to the highest point in Py. It was quite the adventure with it's ups and downs, literally, but it was an incredible view and I'm so glad we decided to do it. It took forever and was actually a lot more intense than I would've imagined for a "mountain" in Py. At some points we were literally crawling up the path trying not to slip on the loose rock. When all was said and done we had walked over a half marathon, which was pretty insane considering I didn't even really know we were going to be hiking it until 2 days before hand. Oh I forgot to mention that since we didn't realize how long it would actually take we brought practically no food, one empanada and 2 bananas each. We were starved. My body was just exhausted, my legs, hips, arms, back... all of it hurt. We eventually got back to Bonna's and showered (we were filthy) and had a little birthday celebration for her. We made chicken fajitas which were probably the most delicious thing I've ever eaten (maybe a little bit has to do with the fact that we were all famished) and then had a cake for her. After we all relaxed for a bit we decided to go the local discoteca...what we didn't realized was that we would literally be the ONLY ones there. It was actually quite wonderful because we had all the space we wanted for dancing and didn't have to worry about creepy dudes!

Getting ready for our hike!

At the top of the Cerro, there was a ladder that led to no where so clearly I climbed it.. maybe it's there for better views?
Our discoteca group!
Finally I made my way back to Carmen. I think life will start to normalize again (well... what really is normal life in the Peace Corps?!).

OH! I forgot to mention that I officially have my Maid of Honor! One of my best friends from college, Sara, has agreed to take on the daunting task from afar. I am SO lucky to have her and I could not be more thrilled that she agreed!!!! :)

xox

P.S. i'll try to be better at updating now!

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

July=Vacation?!

So July accidently turned into the month of non-stop vacation. Oops. You already heard about my casi week long vacay for 4th of July... So then I finally went back to site, but then I convinced Chelsea to visit me. Thankfully she did. We had a fabulous time just watching movies and hanging out and drinking wine, occasionally of course. Then I got the news that my brother had been hit by car and I was terrified. That’s the last thing you want to happen, have a family member who gets in a serious accident and you can do nothing about it. I was just stuck here, half a world away, worrying about my little brother. Thank God Chelsea was here to support me. It was actually hilarious because I called my bosses to inform them about what happened just in case it was more serious that I thought (keep in mind that I had zero info at this point and didn’t know if I would have to return home or something) and they immediately told me to call Chelsea and tell her to come be by my side and support me...little did they know that she was literally already sitting in my room. Ha! Anyhooo, since she had official permission to be in my site, she decided/I told her to just stay for a week. She helped me set up my new “apartment”. We painted and moved my stuff in and then she got to spend my first night with me, which was actually wonderful. Wasn’t lonely at all, which I’ve heard can happen sometimes.














So then Jen returned from Argentina (oh yeah, she was on a fabulous vacation to Buenos Aires…lucky) and lured us to her site with promises of presents. Of course we got on a bus the next day and headed to Villa Florida. The funny thing about Villa FL is that I’m practically more integrated there than I am in my own site. This might be a problem, butttt at least I’m integrated somewhere right!?! It’s only because Jen is like the most guapa PCV ever and knows like everyone, so in turn they clearly know her rubia friend who always visits. Makes sense to me. She had just moved into her house too, and it is way far out in the campo. It’s like a 25-30 minute walk from the center of town on a dirt road. It has a fabulous yard and a ton of space (oh wait, you already knew that because I posted pictures of the fire pit we built) equipped with tons of farm animals including chickens, a horse we named Cocoa, and a little cow. Also we also got Bonna to come visit too. So basically Jen came back from vacation and hosted 3 rubias immediately… that seems right. This is how our girl band "Jen and the Rubias "was created. I’d see that band.

So we had a fabulous weekend and then when we decided that we should go home, we went into to town so I could take out some money from the ATM for the return bus trip. This is how I realized that I was literally trapped in Villa FL. I had only brought enough money for the trip there, because I knew that she had the ATM in her town… I never thought it would be broken the very same day that I wanted to leave and that it would stay broken for a week. Why did I not see this coming? It just seems like something that would happen. So the other, more responsible girls were able to return home while I became Jen’s new roommate. I mean, I’m not going to complain because who wouldn’t want to have a legitimate excuse to stay with your best friend for a whole week and a half?! Why didn’t I just borrow money from Jen you ask? Well, she only had limited cash too and we weren’t sure when the ATM would be fixed and we still had to buy things like food.

On Friday, we invited Jazmine who lives a couple towns over and she said yes immediately. No coercion needed, haha. I also took a long shot and invited Chelsea back. Thank goodness she said yes too. So here we are again having a fabulous time with our fabulous G-mates. I could really get used to that life. Sometimes Peace Corps is stressful and lonely, but then you get trapped in some else’s site and you forget about all of that. And these are the things that Returned PCVs remember when people ask them about their service. They forget all about the hard times (well maybe not allll…) and reflect upon all the amazing times they had with these incredible people we’ve grown so close to.

By the way, if you have not heard… I officially asked Jen to be my very first bridesmaid. I’m so excited! This should demonstrate how quickly and closely you form relationships. I’ve only known her for 6 months but she has grown to become one of my closest friends. That’s what Peace Corps does.

Anyway, I finally made it back to site on Tuesday…whoops. And now I’m about to take 2 teens (my host sister and her friend) to a 3-day HIV workshop where they will learn all about statistics and prevention and all that jazz. Perfect for them because they are interested in pursuing medicine someday. Yay for having a guapa activity finally. But it still goes along with the whole July=Vacation theme because we’ll have to travel many miles away. Then the next day after the workshop is over I have to travel back to G’re, the training community, for a week long training event. I’m so excited to see my G-mates again. Then the weekend after that MATT COMES TO VISIT! Holy Moley, I’m SO PUMPED! I simply cannot wait. Then he’ll be here for two weeks…so maybe it’ll be August=vacation too!

These are the memories that I will hold onto for the rest of my life. These are the times that will make the hard times worth it. These are the moments when I realize that I need to not take everything so seriously, they put things into perspective.
Until next time,
xox